Using The Secret

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You may recall that The Secret encourages you to raise your vibration in order to help you realize your dreams. At the same time, you may be asking, what does this really mean for me? What can I do and how?

Your body generates energy. You emit frequencies based on your thoughts and emotions. Your aura reveals the kinds of energy that you generate, but you may need to evolve in your level of perception to notice this level of detail. Are you attuned with the nature and consistency of your behaviors in other ways? You can learn to read energy vibrations or “vibes.” You can make correlations between how you feel about yourself and the kinds of events that unfold in your life. You can learn to change what is no longer compatible with who you are.

One perspective of The Secret is to love everything and everyone. You can walk away from or even selectively overlook disharmony if you choose to focus on something better. At the same time, recognize that the cost of ignoring the true source of any discomfort will bring in more experiences that cause you more discomfort. You aren’t meant to avoid what makes you feel dissatisfied or uneasy. This is an invitation to learn more about you. The more you learn about you, the more likely you’ll realize your underlying purpose.

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These may strike you as trick questions. You see, being alive implies you are still figuring out your answers to such things. You evolve only when you feel ready to do so. The Secret to living a different kind of life than you have before is the willingness to examine the basis for how we think. Are you ready?

Your answers to your own self-investigation will change with time. How you react to change, how you choose to perceive yourself and your journey, all influence the paths you will take. Will you find your life easy? One would hope not. It is only through a sense of hardship and experiencing mistakes or failure that you can learn to see yourself and the world you create differently. Self-growth is the fundamental goal.

If you create the belief you are sick and will not heal, if you decide you are not worthy of something or, feel so guilty about aspects of your past you would like to die, then you are missing the point of your own discomfort. It is always a clue to what lies beneath your feelings. Why not choose to proble deeper inside yourself? You have the power to create the life you truly want. It simply requires a bit of discipline, patience and desire to learn. The Secret to self-discovery is learning to listen more closely to yourself.

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Everything you see and experience results from your thoughts. No exceptions. Your feelings reveal your real thoughts and whether they cause you discomfort. How well do you know yourself? When you don’t share an attitude expressed by others, you weaken it. You may underestimate the power and impact of your thoughts.

If you choose to judge others, then you will be judged by others. This also means underneath these negative feelings you project on others, you really judge yourself. If you choose to express compassion, then you will experience what its like to be a focus of compassion. Its a question of realizing that your words reflect your state of mind.

Consider what you think and express most frequently. What kinds of vibes are you sharing or giving off? Many people identify themselves with their thoughts. You are exactly what you believe you are. To love and respect yourself doesn’t necessarily reflect conceit. It could also be a healthy perception. Know that you can change your thought process anytime, anywhere. Its up to you. That’s part of The Secret.

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While out-of-town on business, I was recently swimming in a hotel pool. I began speaking with another guest who informed me that he just had to get out and eat quickly so as to return to his room. He confided that he was reading the most incredibly engrossing book. It was hard to put down. You guessed it, this man is captivated by The Secret.

This man explained he is a football player in his spare time and a tool salesman as a main job. He rations his reading of this book to only a few pages per day. Then, he meditates on the ideas as a kind of quiet contemplation. He feels the ideas are mostly “common sense” that he had overlooked or not noticed previously in his life.

Curiously, he went about reading it even when his son and other people warned him of the cult-like following behind it. He chose to read it and apply it to his own life, patterns, how he has raised his children and how he treats himself. In looking at this stranger, I noticed his eyes twinkled. He admits the book transformed how he sees the world and how he thinks. He likes how it has empowered him to see anew.

Ask yourself how your life has changed or remained the same as the result of reading Rhonda Byrne’s book, watching the DVD or, hearing about it in other ways. Why would you recommend it to other people or not? Has it transformed you in any way?

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Society will broadcast messages about health and aging. People you know will talk about negative experiences and bad vibes. Did you see those wrinkles? Have you noticed this flab, that acne? These people give emotional energy to undesirable things. To choose to resist this means to focus on more positive and healthier ideas in your life.

In society, people also become content to say they will fight against things they don’t want. Have you heard radio broadcasts and community messaages that encourage you to fight against terrorism, drugs, disease, political candidates and other things you don’t want? The more you talk about them, the more you give life to things you dont want. Yikes! You need to become more aware of the infinite nature of your own mind.

It makes more sense to focus attention on what you do want: peace rallies, love, forgiveness, energy, initiatives and choices that promote well-being. Focus on abundance. You can give so much to the world. As an individual, you can make a positive difference. Ignore people who would tell you otherwise or prompt you to limit yourself based on their own self-imposed limitations. Devise encouraging messages to block out and replace the negative you hear. Define the life you want and live it.

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Okay, so you go about your daily routine and wonder why the life of your dreams is not presenting itself. Well, ask yourself what you’re doing to make it happen. What else could you be doing? Desired events aren’t known to unfold just because you think something once or mention a thought in passing. You need to understand the nature of the energy being you are and how you can harness your inner power.

In order to realize the experiences you hope for, you need to creatively devise ways to echo the life you crave. In order to ensure the Universe gets your detailed picture, its a question of focusing your efforts in directions that will bring you closer to achieving your dreams. You may read magazines about objects you hope to buy. You may watch programs about places you would like to visit. You may read about abilities you aim to develop inside yourself. Taking initiatives is key.

One example is a man who seeks to marry the girl of his dreams. He has been working hard to save money for an engagement ring. He has gone further than simply thinking about this eventual action. He has scanned magazines and gone window shopping in passing. He also visited jewelers with his girlfriend to discuss interest in settings, price ranges and possible timeframes for payment. He has even been calculating how many clients he needs to purchase the ring of their choice. He talks about his intentions to people he knows. He even logs into on-line auctions out of interest in higher end jewlery merchandise and put up a image of the kind of ring he polans to buy and from where. This man has chosen to work extra hours to build his business to a level where he can achieve new kinds of success that influence the life he dreams about.

In summary, your thoughts influence what you believe will be possible. How you raise awarness of opportunities and possibilities strengthens your beliefs. What you talk about, write about, draw or create in relation to your dreams all reinforce the message you convey to yourself and the world. The questiono to ask isn’t whether or not the universe is listening, but whether or not you’re aware of what you’re doing and the kinds of messages you’re sending out.

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Gratitude is absolutely the way to bring more of what you desire into your life. If you appreciate what you already learn and what you hope to learn, there’s no reason why you would hold yourself back from deepening your insight into areas of interest.

If you seek greater understanding into your emotions, then you can act to attract new knowledge and turn on the light in your head. How you feel is the gauge you can learn to read. To identify if you’re happy where you are, learn to read your feelings. What are your emotional signals telling you? Determine whether you’re attuned to the frequency of what you want. If you’re dissatisfied then, you may wish to change your frequency.

What does it mean to radiate a signal out into the world in ways that it reflects back what you want? Exercises can be undertaken to master the nature of your thoughts. Visualisation is powerfully-focused energy. The law of attraction will react to these powerful signals and send similar things back in your direction. Experts say “what you visualize, you will materialize.” Read more about how to control your thoughts.

Consider what you mean when you say to yourself that you desire greater emotional intelligence. Does this imply you hope to better grasp what other people are feeling? What you’re feeling and why in different circumstances? Its vital to be very specific in your own mind because you will create your understanding of this in a new form. Its all about what you put in place. You devise the rules.

As you take steps to better understand why you evoke certain emotions under certain conditions, recognize that your thoughts determiend your action. How long this takes in time is simply an illusion. You decide at what pace you will evolve, at what pace you will choose to learn, at what pace you will change your current views, patterns and understanding. Your innermost thoughts create everything you see, believe and do.

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You may sense the dream inside you extends beyond where you live now and what you’ve been doing with your life. You won’t blossom into your potential if you choose to remain in an environment where you can’t grow. The very thought of what you’d rather be doing is already attracting different choices your way. Will you notice them?

Think about this: if you experience persecution, rejection or other criticism where you are, then this could be seen as a subtle (or not-so-subtle) nudge in a more appropriate direction. People don’t have it in for you. You see what you project. If you feel struck down, its only because you listen to reasons for the inner fear. You only create this to hold yourself back from the more fulfilling life path that has already opened up to you. As that begins to make more sense, you can train yourself to read situations differently.

If you choose to follow your dream, then you’ll choose not to belittle yourself when people spout negative ideas. You’ll choose not to pour energy into self-doubt or other draining vibes. The Secret encourages you to focus on visions of more positive outcomes. Believe your experiences are opening new doors. You’ll find the keys you need.

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When you have a thought, it has consequences. You can’t always foresee what they will be. Sure. you may wish for something and think about it a lot, hoping events will unfold in your favor. But, how do you know what you’re wishing for is in your interest? The limitations of your perception don’t enable you to see the whole picture. The Universe has insight that you don’t. You must trust the outcome you get will be the best one.

Learn to control your thoughts. Don’t doubt or second guess. Train your mind not to wander to the worst case scenario. If you don’t get what you think you want, recognize your initial desire was a stepping stone to where you are for a reason. You only attract what you tell the Universe you want. Believe all that happens has a bright side. Condition yourself to write down the positives about your situation. Why is it good for you? What insight will you choose to gain? Controlling your thoughts is possible when you’re ready.

The Universe functions to provide what you ask for. However, this system occurs based on your energy alignment, that is, what you see and don’t see, what you feel and don’t feel. You must be completely focused on something without deviating to negative “what ifs” or to self-doubt or to fear about what you don’t want. The more insight you gain into energy fields and chakras, the better you will get a handle on your thoughts.

Its impossible to predict how the Universe will re-align itself to create outcomes in your life. You can send out thoughts and the Universe will do with them what it sees fit. You can’t control what happens ot you or around you, but you can control how you think about it and perceive it. Your job is to find lessons and blessings in it all.

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